Everything seems so romantic while couples are still in the pods, but real life presents some wild issues — and for Jimmy and Chelsea, the main crux of their problem seems to be that Chelsea doesn’t feel sufficiently loved by her intended husband. While Jimmy meets Chelsea’s friends, he’s not physically affectionate with her — Chelsea says he didn’t kiss her once — and isn’t being emotionally open with her either. What’s Jimmy’s response to this? “Truthfully, you’ve been a little clingy.” (Rude.)

What does Jimmy mean by this? “Clingy” is a derogatory term one partner can call another when they’re saying that person’s needs are overwhelming them and they’re not giving them sufficient space. At this point, Chelsea’s “clingy” crimes include watching TV with Jimmy, cooking dinner with him, and having sex with him … so it’s understandable why she’s insulted here.